Sunday, June 15, 2008

Words to inspire

In this article, 7 do's and don'ts are expressed in the form of how they actually have an effect on children's mindsets. Take for example, a simple remark of "we can't afford that" made by a parent, would give the child an impression that money is the answer to everything. Though that may be the harsh fact that money isn't everything, but without money we are nothing, the drastic effects on the child's mind are devastating. The youth would comprise mainly of people treating money as their utmost priority and cast out morals compassion towards each human and simply become money-minded slaves. Experts decipher the adult way of these comments and it turns out that the meanings are quite different from the real meaning. As children, we cannot really decipher sacarsm or other different forms of speech like an adult does and often leads to misunderstandings, realationship disputes and eventually the breaking up of close and innocent relationships. This is caused by the simple misuse or the immaturity of the child's mind. One cannot find fault of another, when the cause is due to the wonders of nature. The only advice is that we exercise a tighter control over our language used and not as freely as so. When we do so, the child's mind may understanding of the remark made by the parent and so does not lead to any unwanted business. Suggesting the importance of communication, if is hard to communicate well and efficiently if the neccessary information is not properly witheld by the parent. In the article, suitable communications techniques are taught on how communication is done right. Some parents have simple no time with their family and have a 10mins or so talk with their family on Sunday nights before turning in. Within 10 mins, it is hard for one to manage a weeks' worth of talk and sometimes, the parent neglect that their child is a child. Some are no more than 10 and do not have Cambridge English-speaking standards. However, talking fast, they neglect or are irresponsible in what they say and this leads to the drifting of family ties. The article is good, as it really gives you some tips on what not to say and they really mean something else when you try to understand it a little further. I would recomend it as communication is indeed an important aspect in life and i would not want to neglect it. Good Night all-samuel

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